Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars.You have to let go at some point in order to move forward ~ Unknown
The over the past few weeks in my blogging I have been remembering some of my younger days. I’ve often stated on All Things Fulfilling the importance of living life forward and not looking back. Yet, I have mixed opinions on that.
For some people, like myself, looking back gives me a sense of my origins, roots and stability. That is a fulfilling feeling. I feel great security in my family and knowing that my parents were always there for me, no matter what. I recognize how fortunate I am. Not every person has that.
Secondly, the retrospective perspective, when written in memoirs can be a powerful tool if it is used to help us review and understand what has or has not worked in the past.There is value in that. The drawbacks come when we get stuck in hindsight because that does not allow for forward movement. And I get that.
The other day I came across an article that I thought might be of interest to people who like myself enjoy writing about memories. Scientists have discovered that there are, indeed, some very good reasons to look back. http://nyti.ms/1l30IYZ.
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