There is nothing that moves a loving father’s soul quite like his child’s cry.” ~ Joni Eareckson Tada
Happy Fathers Day to all dads everywhere!
In retrospect, it makes me laugh when I think that we gave my father a hammock as a present one Father’s Day. If you read my memoir you will understand that my dad spent enough time rocking away his time when I was little, soothing my crying!
He set a fine example as a father figure. My dad was not the kind of father who went off to the office and left the raising of us kids entirely to our mother. He was an active participant. A father’s impact on his children is so important to their healthy development. http://bit.ly/1hrAuwu.
We kids have been his loyal companions participating in all the things he’s always liked to do -boating, fishing, skiing, building, crabbing, gardening and much more.
Today, I’d like to acknowledge all that my father has taught me and all that he put up with us kids. My twin sister and I were constantly nagging at him about this or that. “You girls are going to drive me crazy,” he’d say, when we became teenagers. Admittedly, my sister and I were enough to drive him cuckoo with our double trouble.
It’s no wonder he turned completely gray so prematurely at 27. I was probably way more than half the cause of it. (My son inherited his genes on that one!) It’s evident if you read my memoir I was lucky. I got to spend extra one-on-one time with my dad because of the circumstances of my birth. My sister and brothers have had her fair share of days alone with my father, however. Since I married, I’ve always lived far from the rest of the family.
Even though my father thought we’d drive him crazy, there was never any no doubt that he loved us kids. We can just feel it and words are not necessary to explain it.
Happy Father’s Day, Peeps.
P.S. I’m pretty sure that my sister and I didn’t drive him crazy! He is 86 years old and still very sharp! He can remember the names of almost anyone he has met before. In my opinion, his four children and eight grandchildren are what has really kept him going.
This blog brought to you by Sue Batton Leonard, author of Gift of a Liftetime:Finding Fulfilling Things in the Unexpected.Sue’s memoir See you tomorrow on All Things Fulfilling.