Have you ever made a list of things that truly make you happy? When you get right down to it I’m a cheap date. I don’t need wining and dining out in fancy restaurants, riding around in fancy cars, a McMansion to live in, high-valued gems and jewels to decorate me. Those things really don’t hold much weight of importance in my book.
In fact, my “toys” include few things – some knitting needles, books, some pretty home decorating items that are meaningful to me, and some attractive artwork that appeals to my idea of beauty. Originals are nice but not required.
My idea of the best kind of plaything to acquire is a sweet, loyal and friendly dog who walks with me and is low maintenance except when it comes to cuddle time.
As I have “aged” I have an increasing appreciation for just being on this earth to witness the goodness and gifts that each day brings.
Here are seven things that in recent years I have learned bring me personal fulfillment. They are invaluable to my sense of personal happiness but hard to measure in dollars.
- Allowing myself all the time I need to browse library shelves for a good read.
- Warm, sunny days when I don’t have to wrap myself in layers.
- Impressing myself with my own creativity, motivation and resilience.
- Down time to do something or nothing of my own choosing.
- Hearing a voice that opens with that ever sunny “Hi, Mom!”
- The luxury of sitting in a pew and listening to a hymn that is familiar from my childhood.
- Connecting with others who have similar life values.
- Space enough not to feel restricted and a place that reflects my tastes and personality.
How about you – what do you highly value in your life that you would put at the top of your “must have” list?
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