“All who joy would win, must share it; happiness was born a twin.” ~ Lord Byron
The psychology behind raising twins has been studied and written about for decades. The newer studies suggest that behaviorisms of parents raising twins, should be different now, than years ago. All the do’s and don’ts in today’s world of parenting twins looks like this:
- “Don’t treat them as a unit”
- “Separate them into separate classrooms in school.”
- “Don’t dress them alike.”
- “Make play dates with separate groups of friends”
- “Spend time with each twin, individually”
- “Look for and encourage independence.”
- “Don’t dress one in pink and the other in blue”
The list goes on and on. Mighty tall orders to fill for parents of multiple births, who are just trying to get through the day without pulling out their hair!
Despite the changes in recommendations for raising twins, a lot will always remain the same for two people who were born on the same day, sharing the same mother. I can vouch for that! My twin will always be my best friend, we will always have our own form of “twin speak”, our “twin intuition” will always be on the radar screen and that magic bond will always be there!
Happy Birthday, Jan! Our hearts will always beat as one! With each passing year, mine gets larger for you.
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